I reckon the rear on the stands is more solid than you think. It's been stood for weeks now whilst you've been bashing away and it's not moved a millimetre, right?
I personally prefer to lift from the sides rather than anything central. When I need to get it on four stands, I go around each corner and creep up incrementally, and then only remove the wheels when it's at the final working height. This greatly reduces (more or less eliminates) the risk of tipping you mention, which I feel is more likely only if you lift one side a lot relative to the other side. It's a lot of shuffling the trolley jack around to each corner repeatedly, but feels much safer to me and not had any mishaps.
In your case, I think the rear end is fine. Lift one side of the front just enough to get the wheel off the ground and place a stand, do the same on the other side, and work up to getting the car level with the back before taking the wheels off. Make sure the back is high enough so car is level when the fronts are taken off. For the front, I'll either jack up using the bolts for the lollipop bushings and then place the stand under the jack pad, or vice versa, i.e. lift with jack pad, then place stand under lollipop bolts.
I personally prefer to lift from the sides rather than anything central. When I need to get it on four stands, I go around each corner and creep up incrementally, and then only remove the wheels when it's at the final working height. This greatly reduces (more or less eliminates) the risk of tipping you mention, which I feel is more likely only if you lift one side a lot relative to the other side. It's a lot of shuffling the trolley jack around to each corner repeatedly, but feels much safer to me and not had any mishaps.
In your case, I think the rear end is fine. Lift one side of the front just enough to get the wheel off the ground and place a stand, do the same on the other side, and work up to getting the car level with the back before taking the wheels off. Make sure the back is high enough so car is level when the fronts are taken off. For the front, I'll either jack up using the bolts for the lollipop bushings and then place the stand under the jack pad, or vice versa, i.e. lift with jack pad, then place stand under lollipop bolts.