@t-tony, I think with Frankie, as myself it would have been more of a leap over all that water to land at a friend's home. Through this forum, like no other, people are soooo accepting you for what you are and although there are minor conflicting opinions everything is done with a mutual respect of others rights. And if things get out of hand we have my Dad Gaz to referee. I find the information and knowledge to be above standard and willingness to help unbelievable amongst such a large group of not strangers but friends. I only hope everyone feels the same and that they can knock on my door anytime and walk right in and feel at home. JIM